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Discussing Sexual Orientation with Teens

Talking sex and all things “naughty” with our children can sometimes feels a bit weird but conversations well worth leading…

When discussing sexual orientation with teenagers, it's important to approach the conversation with sensitivity, respect, and openness. Here are some guidelines to help you navigate this discussion:

  1. Create a safe and supportive environment: Set the stage for an open and non-judgmental conversation. Let your teenager know that they can talk to you about anything and that you are there to listen and support them.

  2. Educate yourself: Take the time to educate yourself about sexual orientation, including different identities and terminology. This will help you have a more informed conversation and avoid misconceptions or stereotypes.

  3. Choose an appropriate time and place: Find a quiet and private setting where your teenager feels comfortable and won't feel rushed or distracted. This will allow for a more focused and meaningful discussion.

  4. Be a good listener: Encourage your teenager to share their thoughts, questions, and feelings. Listen attentively and without interruption, providing a safe space for them to express themselves openly. Show empathy and validate their experiences.

  5. Use age-appropriate language: Tailor your language and explanations to your teenager's level of understanding. Use clear and straightforward language, avoiding jargon or technical terms that might confuse them.

  6. Emphasize love and acceptance: Let your teenager know that sexual orientation is a normal part of human diversity and that all individuals deserve respect and acceptance, regardless of their orientation. Emphasize that you love and support them unconditionally.

  7. Address misconceptions: Correct any misconceptions or stereotypes they may have encountered. Provide accurate information about sexual orientation and explain that it is not a choice or something that can be changed.

  8. Be open to their questions: Your teenager may have questions or concerns about sexual orientation. Answer their questions honestly and openly, but also acknowledge when you don't have all the answers. Offer to explore resources together or seek information from reliable sources.

  9. Encourage self-acceptance: Help your teenager understand that it's okay to question and explore their own sexual orientation. Let them know that they have time to understand themselves and that their feelings are valid.

  10. Seek additional support if needed: If your teenager requires more support or guidance, consider connecting them with LGBTQ+ support organizations, counsellors, or therapists who specialize in working with young people.

Remember, the goal is to foster understanding, acceptance, and open communication with your teenager. By creating a safe and supportive environment, you can help them navigate their own journey of self-discovery and provide them with the support they need.


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